Turning 24!

Life is interesting, With each passing year it brings with it some wonderful experiences, some of which are experienced for the first time. And those experiences bring along with it some confusion as well as excitement! Here’s my friend Artee Malave, sharing in her own words, an incident which made a flood of questions and thoughts flow in her mind! Some questions every girl turning 24 has to face.

Yes, Turning 24 and preparing myself for the question “Beta, Shaadi kab kar rahi ho?”

Few days back I was having coffee while relaxing on my favourite  swing in the balcony & I heard my mom chatting with some random relative on phone. As soon as she hung up the phone, she ran to me and said “Guess what?” with a huge smile on her face. Seeing the blank expression on my face, she decided to finally tell me that “Mujhe(by that I mean me :D) rishta aaya hai.” For her it was moment of celebration & for me the coffee had suddenly started tasting more bitter! A little bit in trauma, those last words of mom kept repeating in my brain and that sudden realisation of growing up made me feel sick.

Mom later on was busy with her daily chores, I was still in the balcony trying to recover from the incident that has just happened. There were so many thoughts going on in my brain:

Oh my god! Marriage? What about my career!! I don’t even have my dream job yet…I will need few more years to settle down…I have never thought about the kind of guy I want to marry!

Deciding your life partner is a tough task. (I have been through some tough situations like deciding whether Oreo is better or Hide n Seek 😄 ). Lame jokes apart, being born and brought up with a family who gave me enough freedom, will I get the same freedom after marriage? Will I get to meet my friends after marriage too? Will he be okay with my male friends? Will he understand that my career is the most important thing in my life? Will he give me my space? Will he be able to handle my crazy mood swings? Will he understand that I can start dancing absolutely for no reason? ( this one was irrelevant, But I do start dancing when I am bored :D) And the questions poping up in my brain never stopped.

The girl who has been single for 23 years is always a bit confused about the kind of life partner she want, Whether she wants to be with a guy who is introvert or she wants to be with a guy who is extrovert, Whether a guy who stays calm in every situation or is super excited all the time. And, deciding this while offering a plate of samosa is the most difficult thing of all ( i.e Arrange marriage). Arrange marriage has always managed to scare the shit out of me. Everytime the people I know have got married, I always ask them how did they decide that this guy is the one, eveytime I got answers like “it just clicks” ( I wonder whether she married a human or a computer mouse) or “you just have this feeling that he is the one” (still searching …what exactly she meant.)

For me it was scary because I don’t understand how do people get married to the guy who they are not in love with!! Elder’s always say “U will eventually fall in love.” & I always argue “what if we don’t eventually fall in love?”, “what if we start hating each other?”, “what if he is not as interesting as I thought?” I never really got the answer for this questions. May be that’s why the divorce rate is increasing at such high pace. Back to the question, Meeting someone once (or may be twice or thrice) is not sufficient to decide whether you are going to spend rest of the life with this guy!! I know there are various articles on such topics “if guy has this 10 qualities marry him” but does this all really help? not to me atleast. This articles are based on generalisations but every person is different from other. And, my question remains still unanswered.

Evertime you come up with questions relating to Arrange marriage, people out there always suggest you to marry a guy who is rich or has his own flat. Really is having enough money sufficient to decide if He is the one? I always thought it in a different way, I think you should look for things that are going to stay permanent like his behaviour, the way he treats you, the sets of discipline he follows in his life because money is a temporary factor, its very important to know what kind of human being he is!!

Finally I would like to say Marry a guy Who learns with you, trusts you, encourages you and Respects you!!

P.S: –

Please don’t ask me where and how to find such a guy because I am still searching…

Keep Searching,

Artee Malave

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Why so sexist? 

We can’t neglect the sexism which exists in the society today. Judging people based on their gender is one of the most distasteful and lame things you can do. No, not everyone does it. But there are many. Most of them are uneducated or have been raised with such pathetic thinking such as girls can do this, boys can do that…and so on. 

You may find many articles about feminism and ways of tackling sexism towards women. However, even men face such sexism and yet hardly people talk about it. For eg- From an early age men are told not to cry. “Crying is a trait of women.”

So today I thought about writing on this sensitive topic, which I don’t expect every person to understand. Only a few sensible people would agree upon that.

We human beings go through a number of emotions every day, some of them are sadness, anger, happiness, love etc and each of this emotion needs to be expressed properly to avoid emotional and mental instability, irrespective if you are a Girl, Boy or a Transgender

Anger is associated with sadness. When a person is hurt, he feels sad, and this emotion comes out with crying. When you tell a kid, he should not cry and be a man(because of your lame sexist thinking), every time the kid feels sad, instead of crying he curbs that emotion, and that emotion comes out in the form of Anger. Because emotions always come out, if not in present, in future for sure. And thus it continues forever, As the kid grows up he becomes more and more short tempered, he avoids crying, and even he starts believing that crying is a sign of weakness. He becomes short tempered because he can’t express his sadness the way it was meant to be- i.e crying. I am not talking about crying for every other small stuff, but yeah, if a boy cries for small reasons, even then he can’t be told to be a MAN. Because being a man has nothing to do with crying. Go and consult a physician if you are in doubt.  

Aamir Khan, Salman Khan, Sanjay Dutt, etc we all have seen them cry, in the news reports on tv. 

Sanjay Dutt cried in the media when talking about his jail term. 

Salman Khan cried at Rajat Bharjatya’s funeral. He couldn’t hide his tears at Om Puri’s Funeral too.

Aamir has cried in every Satyamev Jayate episode, even the news channel played his videos of wiping tears during Bajrangi Bhaijaan premier. 

So is any of them less of a man? Go and ask their respective wives and kids. 
It’s not just me who thinks so. There are many who share similar thinking as mine. I found these brilliant pictures uploaded by facebook page- Inspirational Quotes. I saved all of them. I request you to read each one of them. 

” Men don’t love, they lust.”

“PINK? You are wearing pink! Sheeh. Ladki hai kya?”

“Gossiping is so girly!!”

“Be a man! Stop crying like a girl.”

“Mard ko darrd nahi hota?”

Not feeling pain is a dangerous disorder, called as Congenital insensitivity. If you are marrd, bang your head on a wall, if you don’t feel any pain, you are pretty much suffering from this disorder.

“A man should always pay for women.”

Why? Women don’t earn? Women are equally stable mentally, socially, financially as men are! 

“All men are the same.”

You see? All men have different body structures. Different faces. Different minds. Different upbringing. 

If all men are the same, why aren’t all men rich like Anil Ambani? Or why are they not terrorists like Osama? Coz every person is different, whether its a male or a female. 

And finally, the most important thing, there are too many perverts out there in the world. Men who stare women with lusty eyes, pass on cheap comments, harass them, etc. but it is also a fact that all men are not the same.
There are men who respect women, who are not afraid to show their emotions, who know that men, women and transgenders are Equal
So please, if you see someone in your family or friends repeating those male-female sexist clichés, mock them! Hope this article impacts the message it wants to convey on to your minds. Don’t be afraid to convey it to the sexists you see around. Thank you. 

Love,

Pratik Jadhav

New Book launch Alert: One Indian Girl By Chetan Bhagat! 


Chetan Bhagat has made so many people like me passionate about reading. His first book I read was 2 States, though I am not saying he writes something super great stuff, but you can’t deny the fact that pre-chetan Bhagat books, indian book sales were facing a down trend. You can give the credit to his marketing strategy, his writing skills, his imagination, or whataver, but its a fact that he is one of the top most writers in India and his books always reach the best seller benchmarks. Doesn’t matter how much scoopwhoop and other people criticize him, you can’t avoid reading his books, and even if you do, you’ll be watching a movie based on the book after a period of time.

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So, Chetan Bhagat, has written yet another book called – One Indian Girl, as we all know. As the title suggests, the book is written from a girl’s perspective. It’s the first time that Chetan Bhagat has written the story with female first person, it would be super interesting how he would’ve done that. It would be a successful attempt by him if the female readers identify themselves with the character. 

Here is the official teaser of the book-

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Here is the summary: 

Hi, I’m Radhika Mehta and I’m getting married this week.

I work at Goldman Sachs, an investment bank. Thank you for reading my story. However, let me warn you. You may not like much.

One, I make a lot of money.

Two, I have an opinion on everything.

Three, I have had a boyfriend before. OK, maybe two.

Now if I were a guy, you’d be cool with it. Since I am a girl, these things don’t make me likeable, do they?

Seems like the book is aimed at changing the way society looks at women. 

You can buy the book by clicking below and get a discount of ₹57. Amazon guarantees book delivery on the same day when the book is up for all India release i.e 1st Oct.

Click me to order ‘One Indian Girl’ by Chetan Bhagat for a special price of ₹119!

Chetan Bhagat claims most of the people who read his upcoming book have said it to be his best up to date. If it really is, 1st october would tell us!

Till then, keep reading! 

Love,

Pratik Jadhav

My take on Tanmay Bhat’s snapchat video.

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Well, the garma garam topic since 2 days is the snapchat video of Tanmay Bhat wherein he imitates Sachin’s voice with 3D mask and makes a debate between Lata Mangeshkar and him on the topic of, who is better batsman Virat or sachin?
When I saw the video, hearing the mimicry of sachin’s voice and Lata mangeshkar’s voice, I was laughing. Soon in few seconds, the line came up- ‘Lata di you are 5000 years old, so better you die. Even John Snow has died…etc.’ and I was like…Ohhh, that’s quite too much. Telling a legend to die is not at all funny. Especially such legends, because of whom the world respects India.

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BUT,

The reaction which it has recieved, is in fact also quite bizzare like the jokes on Lata Mangeshkar. MNS people baning his future shows in Mumbai. Filing an FIR against him. I mean what the fuck!

Tanmay Bhat is no match to the legends whom he has made fun of in the video, so why are people taking him so seriously?????

Moreover, Lata Mangeshkar herself has said she doesn’t want to see the video. She just ignored it. Why can’t we too ignore it?

Its simple, if you like something, watch it and applause. If you don’t like something, ignore it. Or just don’t subscribe that snapchat ID or their youtube channel. Have they forced you to join?

Why Ban them???

There are so many important issues in the country which requires immediate action and even our attention as well, but nobody gives a fuck about it. Nobody cares about water problem people are facing, nobody cares about farmer’s problem. How to develop irrigation facilities this year? How to save more and more water? All this is ignored and topic of Tanmay Bhat’s snapchat is discussed as if there is nothing better to do.

How many channels have cared to talk on recent MAN KI BAAT by PM Modi ?? Have they even heard it?

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Lata Mangeshkar and Sachin don’t care about the video. Why should we invest our valuable time in it?

And BY THE WAY,

There should not be any problem on him mimicing Sachin and Lata, many comedians in the past have done it in comedy shows. Even now they do it in Kapil sharma show. But yeah, they don’t abuse. Abusing has offended us, so just don’t watch the video. Don’t ban him. He has done very comical videos before(Except the Roast) which were loved by people, we should not simply ignore that.

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People are tweeting against Tanmay Bhat because celebrities like Ritesh Deshmukh, Celina Jetley, etc have also tweeted against him. They are like, if celebrities are saying he is wrong, he MUST be wrong. Come on, you have your own brain, decide for yourself.

I am not at all supporting his video, I didn’t like the abusive part. But I am also not supporting the over-reaction his video has received. Media should focus on important topics in regards to country rather than showing tanmay’s stupid video again and again, and debating on it. And Banning, is never a solution, because then there would be no difference between India and Pakistan.

Think.

Love,
Pratik Jadhav

Top 19 Must-Know facts which will make you smarter!

You are probably wondering, why 19? Why not 20? Well, because I just found out 19. It’s “Inspired” from a whatsapp message I received. I checked these facts on the internet and they seem true. Have a look at them and decide for yourself. I think they are awesome.

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Did You Know? ( That’s how every fact begins.)

1. Your shoes are the first thing people subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice shoes. ( Stop buying those fake branded ones.)

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2. If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there’s a 50% chance you’ll die within the next 3 years. ( Just get set and sleep. I know it’s tough, but…)

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3. There are at least 6 people in the world who look exactly like you. There’s a 9% chance that you’ll meet one of them in your lifetime. ( Imagine your wife or husband looking exactly like you, such a wierd looking couple that would be, theoretically.)

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4. Sleeping without a pillow reduces back pain and keeps your spine stronger. ( I never sleep with a pillow. Wow. My spine is stronger. Burn. )

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5. A person’s height is determined by their father, and their weight is determined by their mother. ( That doesn’t mean you put your fat belly’s blame to your parents!)

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6. If a part of your body “falls asleep”,
you can almost always “wake it up” by shaking your head. (Shake that thing!)

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7. There are three things the human brain cannot resist noticing – Food, attractive people and danger. (Ya, I totally understand this, I cannot resist noticing hot girls. )

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8. Right-handed people tend to chew food on their right side. ( I actually chew from the left one, I am so unique, chosen one. ) #Narcissist

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9. Putting dry tea bags in gym bags or smelly shoes will absorb the unpleasant odour. (That’s gross, I opt for spraying deos.) (Hold on! My shoes never smell in the first place!)

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10. According to Albert Einstein, if honey bees were to disappear from earth, humans would be dead within 4 years. ( Maybe by honey he meant all the wives and girlfriends in the world.)

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11. There are so many kind of apples , that if you ate a new one everyday, it would take over 20 years to try them all.(Let’s just go for mango.)

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12. You can survive without eating for weeks, but you will only live 11 days without sleeping. ( Zzzz…That’s why I sleep so much. I wanna live longer. )

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13. People who laugh a lot are healthier than those who don’t. ( Hahaha…hmm…hehehe…hm)

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14. Laziness and inactivity kills just as many people as smoking.( Quit smoking, Quit laziness as well. Janheet me jaari. )

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15. A human brain has a capacity to store 5 times as much information as Wikipedia. (Wow!! Why it couldn’t remember some answers during exams. 😦 guess I underused it. )

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16. Our brain uses same amount power as 10-watt light bulb!! ( Electrifying fact.)

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17. Our body gives enough heat in 30 mins to boil 1.5 litres of water!! (Oh! So that’s why they call me hot. Now I got it.) 

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18. Stomach acid (conc. HCl) is strong enough to dissolve razor blades!! (Scary, where do these acid come from? And where do they go?)

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19. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. & while you walk, SMILE. It is the ultimate antidepressant. (Yes this works, I’ve tried. If there’s a hot chick around, she might think you are smiling at her, helps in building new contacts you see. )

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So, that’s it. Congratulations!! You have become smarter by 19 Facts, now go brag ’em to your friends. Let me know what you think about these facts in the comment section below. *Winks*

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Love,
Pratik Jadhav

The Best Seller She Wrote by Ravi Subramanian-Review

First of all, I would like to thank BlogAdda for giving me this opportunity to review this amazing book. The Best Seller she wrote is one of the highly awaited books from Ravi Subramanian since it’s his first romantic thriller and readers (especially fans like me were super eager to read this!)

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So, Let’s begin!

The book’s Cover designed by – ‘Think WhyNot’ looks extremely attractive, the cute face of a girl and a dude’s face on the right wearing those author-like spectacles looks new and appealing. Even the background colour, which is Yellowish Mango colour, makes it look yummy. (That’s the right word, consciously chosen)

 

As you open the book, you see Ravi Subramanian’s Note saying –

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which brings a smile onto your face.

The Plot:-

The bestseller she wrote begins in a packed auditorium of IIM, Bengaluru, where a branch director of National Bank, an alumnus of the same institute, and yes, of course, an author who has four books to his credit, has come. His books have sold four million copies and two have also been made into a movie. In short, he’s a super successful author!

Shreya, is an ambitious girl who is beautiful, outspoken, young and reckless, who always aspires to become a successful author. Somehow, Aditya and shreya end up in a verbal spat, strangely or so, their anger soon turns into love/ attraction/ infatuation. This happens when shreya actually reads Aditya’s books that she feels attracted to him. Their worlds intertwines and the magic of love spells. Aditya who is enchanted to her is actually married to a loyal, devoted woman- Maya.

After some romance between shreya and Aditya, we realise that Shreya is actually quite self-centered and is only using Aditya for realising her dreams. We realise this by the way she brings out the topic of manuscripts and dream of writing amidst some romantic moments.

Maya, Aditya’s wife (Whom you pity while reading.) gets infected with a deadly disease. And, when she is dealing with this trauma, she gets another shock of her life when she discovers something fishy in Aditya’s phone and thus gets to know his unfaithfulness towards her.

Soon, Aditya realises his mistake of cheating his devoted wife. He asks for her forgiveness and tries to end his demeaning relationship with Shreya. Shreya is aggravated with this and threatens him to destroy his career. How? You’ll know when you read.

Will Maya accept Aditya’s apology and will the both be together? Or the love story of Shreya and Aditya will take a new positive turn? Will  shreya be successful in publishing her book? Will Sanjay a family friend of Aditya, help him get out of this mess? Will Shreya destroy Aditya’s career?

You’ll get all the answers when you read the book.

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You can read this synopsis on the back cover.

My opinion:-

The cover page might make some readers misjudge the book to be a romantic love story, but NO! It’s not just a romantic love story, of course, there’s romance, but it’s a thriller too! Like every Ravi Subramanian novel, this one has many twists and turns. The characters play with your brain, you trust a character in one chapter and they betray you in another chapter.

Thus, I being a fan of the narrative style of Ravi Subramanian with many thrilling twist and turns, wasn’t disappointed at all. This one has romance, betrayal, redemption and hidden greed all coated with surprising thrills which make it a perfect read!

What I liked:-

  1. The interesting story.
  2. The way Ravi Subramanian has introduced all the characters, all seem to wearing a mask. Their true faces are revealed as you read.
  3. Though a romance novel, Ravi sir has kept the thrill element alive.
  4. Fast paced. Ravi sir doesn’t waste time describing unimportant things like the colour of the clothes or what the characters are eating. He writes to the point and keeps the readers glued to the book.
  5. All the current affairs are mentioned like, Ebola, Blogadda, Iphone-6, Twitter trends, which makes the story seem fresh and new!

What I didn’t like:-

  1. Some characters needed more in-depth information. e.g Melvin. Yes only one negative point, otherwise this book is too awesome.

By the way, In one of the recent TOI contests, I had asked Ravi Subramanian sir one question about this book, and this is what he had to say:

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So, has he successfully won his challenge? Yes, he has come out with flying colours.

Publisher- Westland Ltd.
Pages- 391
ISBN- 978-93-85152-38-2
Genre- Romantic Thriller
Fiction

MRP- Rs. 295

Though you can get it from Amazon with a discount at just Rs. 180/-

LazyScoop Rating:

4.5 /5 stars

Get your copy ASAP!

Ravi Subramanian’s autograph :

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Love: An exquisite feeling.

Though it’s too late now, Belated Happy Valentine’s Day to all my lovely readers. May you all find true selfless love in your lives.

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Valentine’s day. I love this day simply because of the fact that this day promotes ‘ Love ‘. It doesn’t matter if you are single or in a relationship, Valentine’s day is a day of love. And we all have fallen in love with someone or the other. We all have had our crushes back in school days, Some of us even have it now (Including Me) And perhaps, Even many others may have had crush on you. This day reminds me of my first crush. I didn’t knew what crush means at that age.

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I entered the class room and I saw a beautiful girl. She was just beautiful, very fair complexion, Big beautiful eyes, and a super cute face. I couldn’t resist myself from looking at her for some seconds. Time passed by and she became a good friend of mine. My heartbeats used to pace up whenever we talked. Later, luckily, I was even made to sit beside her. But, I ended up arguing with her many times. Can’t remember why! Still, later we became friends again, and still are. Anyways, that’s not why I am writing this article for. It was my first crush, and so I remember it to this day. It’ll remain special to me, perhaps, forever.
And of course since then I’ve had many crushes. MANY! I mean who doesn’t, right? When I was in 6th, I had crush on my Science teacher as well, she was always very sweet to me. And she was quite cute. ( Lol )

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“The purest form of love is the love in which we don’t expect anything in return. ”

I recently read an article, it had a weird suggestion of falling in love with someone whom we can’t have, who are much prettier, sexier or already in a relationship. According to that article, falling in love with such person makes us grow emotionally stronger, and immune to depression. Sounds Weird, Doesn’t it? But, it makes sense! As we madly fall for a person for whom we stand no chance of becoming lover, we go through a great emotional trauma, Obviously! What would be more hurting than the feeling of not being loved back by the person you love the most. With the passing time of this one sided love affair, we go through great depression and sadness which ultimately makes us Immune to that. We stop fearing heartbreaks. In short, our heart becomes strong! I pondered upon this thought for quite a while and realized, well, yeah, this is so true. So, If you are single, You can try it!

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But then, this doesn’t mean, liking someone and still curbing your emotions by hiding it. If you like someone, Don’t sit there like a loser thinking maybe I can’t have that person. Well, Just go ahead, Become friend with that person first, and then you never know, when the cupid strikes his arrow in your crush’s heart! ( ” Pyaar Dosti Hai “, Remember this dialogue from Kuch kuch hota hai? ) And even if it doesn’t, don’t worry, there are too many fishes in the sea.( Wink! ) Moreover, heartbreaks can make your heart stronger too. So, don’t worry if a girl breaks your heart. ( Boys usually don’t break hearts.* (*conditions apply)

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Know the difference between love and like!

” When you like a flower, You pluck it, but when you love a flower, You water it. “

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What is Love?

Scientifically, When people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including neurotransmitter hormones, dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin, the same compounds released by amphetamine, stimulating the brain’s pleasure center and leading to side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement.

According to Wordweb dictionary, Falling in love means Feeling a sense of liking and affection for someone.

Loving someone without expecting anything in return is what is true love for me. If there is a motive behind your love, then your love is contaminated, it’s not pure.

A poem I wrote last year for a crush of mine. Hope these phrases bring your respective crushes in front of your eyes.

POEM

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Many people I’ve heard about in usual chats and gossips ( I don’t do gossips, but I like to put in my ears for them ) they approach a girl, and if the girl says No, they do all the stalking and other crazy thing, they literally blackmail by saying they will commit suicide and other bull shit. Well, come on! You can’t force someone to love you. It comes from within. You can’t make that girl fall in love with you by coercion. And yes, this is more or like coercion. And suicide? I mean what the fuck! Is your life so dirt cheap that you can lose it if the girl says NO for your proposal? This might sound a bit mundane to some people but, Why not die for the country rather than committing suicide? Some Romeos and Juliets may claim that this is what love is, to die for your loved one and blah blah. I pay them standing ovation of my tallest finger. Die for your loved one, doesn’t mean committing suicide.

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Love and Movies:

When I saw Ranjhanaa movie, the same question arrived in my head, why the hell is he pressurizing her, And what happens in the end? He dies. Yup, obviously, overall it’s a sweet love story. But, quite stupid too, if we descry from the hero’s point of view.

It’s not that the male lead dies in the end which makes me feel disgusted, it’s the dumb reason which makes me feel so. I mean, Observe Titanic, Hero dies, but that story touches heart, because there is a valid reason for that hero to die. He dies to save his female love. That makes sense and that can be termed as true love.

But, descry at Aashiqui 2, Why the hell the hero commits suicide? It was a hit movie because of its great music and performances. Remove that, and all bull shit is what remains. He dies because he is a loser who can’t decide to quit his drinking habit and move on with it.
He is rich ! He has someone who loves him a lot! He has a successful uncle who backs him up for music career. He has a great friend who supports him. And he dies in the end! Lolz to that.

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Love yourself:

Loving yourself is the most important thing ever! If you yourself don’t love yourself, then why the hell would others?
Many of you might say, ‘Love yourself ’? Does that mean being selfish? Just caring for the self ? Hell No! Loving yourself means simply feeling affectionate about yourself. Try to make your own self happy too. Many of us forget that, we fall in love with someone and it turns out to be one sided love. Have you wondered why? Perhaps, you don’t love yourself! There might be other reasons too, but this one also would be one of the reasons.
I love the title song of I, Me aur Main movie. It has a phrase, “ Vo Duniya jeetega jisko ho ye yakeen, kabhi khudse behtar hota koi nahi…”
‘ His height is better than mine, he can have her.’, ‘ she looks so great, hell I don’t deserve her.’ ‘ He is so damn rich, he can woo any girl out there.’ ‘ Look at her smile, I wish I had that’ I mean come on! We all are special, nobody is perfect. It’s confidence which matters the most, And that comes when we fall in love with ourselves. Except yourself the way you are. Doesn’t matter if you are fat, thin, fair, dark, tall, short or whatever, these limits are created by our minds, If you except these stupid judgements, you are gonna have a real miserable life. Fu*k these things, Be confident! Look in the mirror, look yourself into your eyes, and say, ‘I love you.’ No matter how crazy this sounds, do it! If you do it sincerely, trust me, you’ll feel a great emotional happiness. And that feeling is what I call, ‘Falling in love with your own self.’
When we love ourselves, we tend to grow better in all walks of life, be it the studies, love life, Performance, etc. We see to it that we are happy, we follow our heart, we try to meet our ambitions with confidence.

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So to conclude,
Don’t fear break ups or heartbreaking, there is someone out there in this big beautiful world waiting for you, wait for the right time to meet him/ her. In the meantime, you can hit on others too. (Wink)
Don’t force anyone to fall in love with you.
And, when you fall in love, Just be madly sinked in it. Be passionate about it. Completely adore that person, make him think that he couldn’t have got a better person than you in his life ever!
If you have a crush, Tell them how you feel about him/her, trust me, it’s a great feeling. And, yup! Fall in love with yourself first, If you don’t love yourself, No one else is going to love you.

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Sometimes I wish, I was like the Dexter character, NO understanding of human emotions. There would’ve been NO Crushes! NO heartbreaks! NO Love! NO Emotional ruts!

Anyways,
That’s it for now. I know these blog was literally dead for so many months. But it’s gonna be alive and super active again like a phoenix rising from the ashes, I promise. Moreover, I’ve been working on a E-book of mine which is going to be available for sale soon on Amazon. I’ll share it’s official cover pic soon on blogikpratik facebook page. Also new contests would be held up to promote the book. It will most probably come in May, 2014. Your enthusiasm and support is definitely needed. Hope to get the same love and response from you all for my book too. If theres any suggestion for new articles, or anything about the writing, do let me know.
Till then, Keep Loving and all the best for the forthcoming exams.

Love,
Pratik Jadhav

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